Stupidity comes in various forms..

Stupidity comes in various forms..

So just when I thought it was going to be a lovely weekend..Rugby game on Saterday(it was the semi-final!).. Braai with some friends.. My sister visiting me on Sunday.. and last but not least James Blunt with SexyG on Monday!! But fuk nooo! (yes, I swore..I am kinda mad right now)… First off – The Sharks lost!! OMW.. My boytjies didnt even play the game as well as they normally do.. It was such a pisspoor perfomance.. Need to phone the Coach Dick Muir and ask him to do drug tests.. Cos I think they were all on weed or something. So then.. as if things couldn’t get worse.. i had the nasty task of meeting Arsefuk because he needed to drop of a TD Bag for J (he’s TD Board was in danger of breaking).. So he phones me and says he is just up the...

Arsef?k and his mental illness…

Arsef?k and his mental illness…

He was hospitalized once in the “psych ward” of Westville Hospital and there was OBVIOUSLY some mistake as he was released after only a week… He says it was sleep therapy but I am not so sure. He has exhibited wild and crazy behaviour over the years which include stalking me and peering in my bedroom window every night for two months ….Needless to say I was terrified when I found out! Then there was the time he gave himself a nickname and said things like “I am Jammo, the magic man!” or ” Woman throw themselves at me…” He is obviously delusional and I think he has gone off his meds again.. He really is such a useless wally!! He is now telling me that having the kids for the holidays are currently an...

Psycho for hire…

This is it… Arsef?k phoned me this morning to tell me that he is on a drip… (Yes, I see the irony in this) It is his weekend and I have plans.. And as any divorced mother knows.. we plan our weekends that we have off extensively… So after I enquired as to whats wrong with him all I got was a vague “some bug I think” OMG.. Can he please credit me with some intelligence? He has obviously made other plans for the evening and now needs me to keep the boys till tomorrow. So after asking a few more questions it turns out he isn’t as ill as he first thought and will pick the boys up at 5pm. (He is apparently well enough to go to work after his drip session…lol) I don’t know why but I think he was upset with me at this...

The adventures of Arsef?k continues unfortunately…

I am constantly surprised by his ability to love himself… Last night after a rather unpleasant telephone call, I received an SMS from arsef?k where he felt it necessary to inform me that even though his last girlfriend ran screaming away from him all the way back to JHB, that he has “plenty others on tap just waiting in line…” Why, oh why, does he feel it necessary to tell me all this? Does he really think I care? Am I supposed to throw myself in front of a bus because he gets a shag once a month from arb women? All I feel is pity though for him.. He may think he is “the Man” but I will always know him as “the Loser..” Only a loser thinks that the best way to solving conflict is through violence.. Only a loser...

Arsef?k..

Arsef?k.. It is the only word I can think of that suitably describes the person I was once married to… To think how stupid I once was to think he was someone worth shagging never mind living with him! I suppose we have all had our dumbass moments in life and I just feel that it has taught me alot about myself and how people are not to be trusted so easily. Cos what you see is not always what you get! He comes across at first as a very “nice guy”. But underneath that facade is a psychopath just waiting to get the better of you. I remember the first time I saw his true colours.. I was approximately 4 months pregnant with our first child and I had said something to upset him, and as I turned around to unlock our flat door he grabbed me by the...