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	<description>Because I Can ..... and so can you!</description>
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		<title>Comment on If I had a penis.. by Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 09:11:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Babybear I don&#039;t want any more than I have. Its already more than a mouth full and this can be problematic with the gagging reflex and all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Babybear I don&#8217;t want any more than I have. Its already more than a mouth full and this can be problematic with the gagging reflex and all.</p>
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		<title>Comment on If I had a penis.. by Guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 09:10:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You fallaciously insinuated that men with small willies wear boxers because they would bruise. It&#039;s generally more about being squeezed into those tiny briefs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You fallaciously insinuated that men with small willies wear boxers because they would bruise. It&#8217;s generally more about being squeezed into those tiny briefs.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Winning &amp; Pain.. by Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 11:16:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>SUCH awesome news about the girls!!!!!!!!! YAY!!

And the gym - keep at it - it does at some point get better :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>SUCH awesome news about the girls!!!!!!!!! YAY!!</p>
<p>And the gym &#8211; keep at it &#8211; it does at some point get better <img src='http://becauseican.co.za/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Winning &amp; Pain.. by Hardspear</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hardspear</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 10:07:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Freud had a theory that some schizophrenics, psycopaths and masochists find a socially acceptable outlet for their mad desires.  They would for instance become surgeons, dentists etc - occupations where it is acceptable to inflict pain on others.  I think gym instructors fall in that category</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Freud had a theory that some schizophrenics, psycopaths and masochists find a socially acceptable outlet for their mad desires.  They would for instance become surgeons, dentists etc &#8211; occupations where it is acceptable to inflict pain on others.  I think gym instructors fall in that category</p>
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		<title>Comment on Must.Have.Now&#8230; by Hardspear</title>
		<link>http://becauseican.co.za/2012/01/24/must-have-now/comment-page-1/#comment-50698</link>
		<dc:creator>Hardspear</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 19:52:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*koff-koff* ha ha ha ha haaa, thats funny.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*koff-koff* ha ha ha ha haaa, thats funny.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Must.Have.Now&#8230; by Ronel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ronel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 13:58:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>are they available in Pink?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>are they available in Pink?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Must.Have.Now&#8230; by Gina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 18:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOVE!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOVE!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Big Bang &#8211; Take 56928475892&#8230; by Glenda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Glenda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 14:24:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hated my ex and couldnt stand the sight of him and i never wanted to be around him for even a minute,but when it came to our daughters he had unlimted visitation rights. As much as i wanted to be nasty and vandictive i had to be a grown up and let him see the girls whenever they wanted to see each other. Im sorry she is been a selfish,horrible heartless bitch. Good luck we are all with you both all the way!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hated my ex and couldnt stand the sight of him and i never wanted to be around him for even a minute,but when it came to our daughters he had unlimted visitation rights. As much as i wanted to be nasty and vandictive i had to be a grown up and let him see the girls whenever they wanted to see each other. Im sorry she is been a selfish,horrible heartless bitch. Good luck we are all with you both all the way!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Big Bang &#8211; Take 56928475892&#8230; by Gina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 11:32:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good luck!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good luck!!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Big Bang &#8211; Take 56928475892&#8230; by Mr Me</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr Me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 11:24:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I will hold thumbs for you both! I too am going through the same thing where my lovely Ex is allowing me the absolute minimum in terms of visitation rights and making the most insane &quot;rules&quot; to justify everything. 

The point that bothers me about this and gets me sad is the fact that the kids wont know their dad, both SexyG and I respectively. They wont know how much they are loved and missed. All that gets fed to them and all they know is that their dad isnt there. No full explanation, no re-assurance that their dad NEVER wanted to leave them, only their mother. It actually breaks my heart to imagine my daughters thinking ill of me for doing nothing wrong. Judging me for &quot;leaving&quot; them, while all I wanted was to leave their mother. 

Sigh. The things we do for our kids. If only that was seen, the heartache, the brave faces and the attempts to keep their life as simple and uncomplicated as possible. The world is a cruel, cruel bitch sometimes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will hold thumbs for you both! I too am going through the same thing where my lovely Ex is allowing me the absolute minimum in terms of visitation rights and making the most insane &#8220;rules&#8221; to justify everything. </p>
<p>The point that bothers me about this and gets me sad is the fact that the kids wont know their dad, both SexyG and I respectively. They wont know how much they are loved and missed. All that gets fed to them and all they know is that their dad isnt there. No full explanation, no re-assurance that their dad NEVER wanted to leave them, only their mother. It actually breaks my heart to imagine my daughters thinking ill of me for doing nothing wrong. Judging me for &#8220;leaving&#8221; them, while all I wanted was to leave their mother. </p>
<p>Sigh. The things we do for our kids. If only that was seen, the heartache, the brave faces and the attempts to keep their life as simple and uncomplicated as possible. The world is a cruel, cruel bitch sometimes.</p>
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