Hello Old Friend,


Winds of Change


Dear Online Diary,

It has been a crazy few years together, I spent a few  days just going over the archives here and it hit me.

I am no longer the same angry, sad and flighty person who started using online blogging as a way to vent, articulate and work through the madness of my life at the time.

Since then, I have found new love, learnt to accept the madness as my own and best of all, grown into a more forgiving person.

It wasn’t easy to get here, I had such issues with what I took as the unfairness and bad behaviour of others, but soon came to realise that there is nothing I can do about how others are BUT I can change how I react to them.

So nowadays, I smile and wave.

The HairyKnuckle is still an angry untrustworthy person who has done sooo much damage in the past, but I no longer care about her whimsy, I no longer listen to her nonsense and I no longer allow her negativity to enter my life.

Arsefuk is still a money loving womanising sociopath, but I no longer listen to him or care about his madness. I have taught my children to take it all with a pinch of salt and all I feel for him is sadness and pity.

As with all things, we change, and can only hope that the change is for the better.

It makes me so damn happy to realise that I am a stronger, happier and tougher person now than I was then.

So with that, I have decided to change the focus of this blog. It will still be a Lifestyle Blog, but it will now be a more positive place. My life is so full of fun and I think we all need to share more of the love and light in life and leave the assholes to their own devices.

I will still share my daily madness with you, of course. But the madness these days are different.

My madness has me laughing at the chaos and occasionally flipping the bird at the guys, while I sit in the aircon bedroom and leave them sweat to in the heat because I hid away the fan.

I am happy, my life is different, my nails are prettier and my smile is bigger. And sometimes when you catch me unawares, I might even do a vlog about hair penis 😉 .