Dirty Secrets… NSFW

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One of my weekly stop by, love to look at, blogs is

….The Dot Spot

I am intrigued by the various kinky she brings forth and best of all most of what I find there is real.. as in real people doing real things with each other in very real ways.

There is nothing sexier than someone who is comfortable with their own body and not afraid to play.

And I often look at others and wonder at just how far down the rabbit hole they will venture when the curtains are drawn and they can truly be themselves. I am willing to bet good money that what we see is not what truly is.

We all have our little dirty secrets don’t we 😉  That carefully applied mask of propriety whilst we hide the ropes under the bed. The shy smile while the eyes allude to more.

And  then there is the public exhibitionist… the person who speaks of sexual conquests with much bravado, with dirty jokes for every situation. Whilst behind closed doors the bravado is replaced by self awareness and insecurity.

Again, it is all not as it would seem.

I have often found that the publicly brazen individuals are the true prudes of society, they are the ones insisting on the lights off.. barely remove all their clothes and generally do not allow themselves to truly let go during intimacy.

So why do we play Jekyll and Hyde?

Is this our safety net?

And Why do we feel that it is necessary??

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Sooooooo —– what is your dirty little secret? 😉

xoxo