Fabulously Friday..

Fabulously Friday..

I am off to the land of the *Zulu’s.. (Sappi stinkies & random Hippo’s) for the weekend So you behave now, and I promise not to *Zululand aka EmPONGeni 1 person likes this post. Like Unlike Share This:

Toothpicks for Freuds..

Toothpicks for Freuds..

I am a dreamer.. and I don’t mean daydreaming either.. I think I dream every night and most of the time my dreams are absurd and whacked out by anyone’s standards. It varies from terror to porn to fluffy bunnies watching porn I don’t discuss the details of my dreams with most people as it would freak them out..lol .. AND because I feel that my dreams are such a personal portrayal of my true feelings that I am almost too embarrassed to speak about it. However, the night before last I had such a giggle worthy dream I woke up laughing.. and because I see no real harm in it I thought I would share it and I challenge the freudians out there to interpret this if they can “..an email is circulating on the net amongst my friends.  But it...

Thingymacdoody…

Thingymacdoody…

I had this mothballed to do… and well.. I am going through the list of todo’s Stolen fair and square from LauraKim <– I know she will forgive me.. How long have you been blogging: Uhm…. lemme check.. November will be three years! Wowie! See how much kak I can talk hey!? Why did you start blogging: I had a lot to say.. A LOT! So much going on at the same time, and no real way to deal with it. Cheapest therapy ever, though.. What have you found to be the benefits of blogging: Once I have written it down, its dealt with. I am able to move past the hurt, pain or confusion and tackle the next task ahead of me. How many times a week do you post an entry: 2-3 times a week.. I have just too much on my plate to do it more often. How many...

Thinking of having another one..

Thinking of having another one..

I know… I know .. I know… I swore I would never have another one after the agony I experienced with the first one but lately I have been thinking about having another one.. What am I talking about?? A tattoo.. I want another tattoo. Its not as frowned upon as it was a few years ago <– so less flack from the peanut gallery AND I would really like something tribal and elaborate on my back (to match the other one, of course) Still remembering the pain though.. so for now I will just doodle some drawings and think some more. Be the first to like. Like Unlike Share...

The IT Monster..

The IT Monster..

I remember awhile ago discussing my feelings of a particular situation with a Psychologist friend of mine and he sat me down and then spoke to me about the IT monster.. The IT monster is a very dangerous creature that will control your feelings and emotions and literally drive you either to murderous thoughts/actions OR throw you down the a ravine of depression. So what is the IT monster, you ask? It very simply put is habit. We are all preconditioned as young children through to adolescence and older of how certain situations will make us feel. For example, If we do something wrong we feel guilt. If we are suddenly naked we feel ashamed and if someone compliments our appearance we feel pleased. These are all conditions of habit. They are taught to us by our...