For some .. there is just no positivity

They will look for negativity in EVERYTHING. They will blame everyone and everything on someone/something else.

 For some .. there is just no positivity

“Nothing is their fault and life is unfair.”

They will tell everyone who is willing to listen about how others have influenced their downfall in life instead of assessing a situation and working towards a positive solution. They will expect others to do most things for them as they are incapable /unwilling to do anything for themselves. But will then turn around complaining about how they HAVE to do everything and if they don’t do anything NOTHING gets done.

Responsibility lies with everyone else. They will never accept responsibility for themselves or their situation.

And I have no time for this self pitying bullshit. Grow the fuck up man! You are not a child, stop behaving like one.

I am not the reason you are miserable, you are. And you know what…if you continue to attack me for no reason at all and persist on blaming me for your situation I may just lose my temper with you completely and vote you off this island.

I know you are probably reading this and this time you will be correct in your accusation… this time it is about you. So print it out, read it a few more times(please). Fully swallow the extent of your miserable behaviour and know that if you continue your self pitying bullshit, you will continue to be alone and unhappy.

“Your loneliness is your own fault. Your problems are of your making and You are not a nice person…”

Honestly, I don’t know if you have the ability to change – but if you do, I suggest you try really fucken hard. For your sake more than for anything else…

briget For some .. there is just no positivity

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6 Comments

  1. Tara
    Jan 26, 2010

    Oh my god! I’ve been right this whole time? It is ALL about me?! ;)

    But yes, I wish more people would take some personal responsibility. That would be awesome.
    .-= Tara´s last blog ..The big bad debt machine =-.

  2. cat@juggling act
    Jan 26, 2010

    What a great post! Just saw your name at the Nerdies and had to have a look.

  3. Gilz
    Jan 27, 2010

    Perhaps they wants some cheese with their whine?

  4. B
    Jan 27, 2010

    Tara – Yes, you selfish bitch. You need to start putting out!

    cat@jugglingact – hello there!! Thank you! so did you nom me?? (shameless plug)

    Gilz – Make it a stinky blue and I can accomodate ;-) Too many of them out there.. time to vote them all off;-)

  5. Spear The Almighty
    Jan 28, 2010

    I loved this post! I think all of us can be little whiney bitches at time. Thanks for giving us a nice wake the fuck up bitch slap.
    .-= Spear The Almighty´s last blog ..Piet36758, go and #$@% yourself =-.

  6. @delespacio
    Jan 28, 2010

    Wait, did you also date my ex-girlfriend?
    .-= @delespacio´s last blog ..delespacio: http://twitpic.com/100ac7 – best steering lock ever =-.

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