Getting Married, it would seem everyone is doing it. Very weird as well because at my age I have already gone through the baby boom and wedding bells with all my friends but with the advent of divorce and *complicated* relationships the wedding bug is hitting everyone hard once again.( I am not even going to mention how many pregnant fairies I know..LOL)
I have been asked many times if this is something I would do again and to be quite honest I don’t know. I was never really asked the first time around and that was a disastrous relationship even before it began and being married made it a difficult one to leave. Something about marriage makes people want to beat a dead horse even if its lame.. My marriage was a lame horse from the start but there I was dragging it around with me in the hopes that it would miraculously get up and ride off with me into the sunset like one of those Mills n Boon’s novels my mom read ad nauseum.
You see being a girl we all want the Fairytale Prince Charming to sweep us off our feet and live “Happily Ever After..” But this is real life and horses scare me and If some guy approached me with one of my shoes I will ask him WTF he is doing with my shoe and kick him in the nuts..
So I have been accused of being slightly jaded and even though I don’t agree and feel that they are confusing jaded behaviour with that of a cautious manner, I don’t see how I can be faulted for feeling that way (if I was indeed jaded and I am not admitting to anything just yet).
I am a difficult person but with simple needs. And marriage is not the be all and end of all of my life. Honestly now guys, not being married does not mean I will burn in hell for all eternity for dipping into extra-curricular with SexyG nor does it mean I am less of a person for being single.. It just means that I am not married. Do I want to be loved!?, Yes – but do I want to be married just because its the next step?!, No.
My sister once told me that she doesn’t condone sex before marriage, and feels that I am giving my milk away for free.(She said all this with love you see) I then had to explain to her how since we are likening me to livestock I would like to point out that the farmboy is paying dearly to tap this… 
Marriage, is this something I am going to do again?? I don’t know for sure yet, BUT IF I DO – I know it will be for the right reasons and not because someone told me its the next move.. oh, and someone has to ask me first..Properly.
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