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		<title>By: Cheryl Mac</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cheryl Mac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 07:52:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What happened to the customer is always right! I am friendly to the shop assistants, but don&#039;t go so far as the tomatoe guy and pick me out because I am not greeting you.
.-= Cheryl Mac&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://cherylmac.blogspot.com/2009/11/update-on-work-and-merit-badge-for-my.html&quot;&gt;Update on work and a merit badge for my daughter&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happened to the customer is always right! I am friendly to the shop assistants, but don&#8217;t go so far as the tomatoe guy and pick me out because I am not greeting you.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Cheryl Mac&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://cherylmac.blogspot.com/2009/11/update-on-work-and-merit-badge-for-my.html">Update on work and a merit badge for my daughter</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://becauseican.co.za/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Gilz</title>
		<link>http://becauseican.co.za/2009/10/26/appearances-deceive/comment-page-1/#comment-8424</link>
		<dc:creator>Gilz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 16:35:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Weird Hairy Guy sounds like our corner cafe Greesy Greek, Costa.
.-= Gilz&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://gillianhefer.blogspot.com/2009/10/off-to-wilderness-this-weekend.html&quot;&gt;Wilderness Weekend - What Happens in the Tent Stays in the Tent&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Weird Hairy Guy sounds like our corner cafe Greesy Greek, Costa.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Gilz&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://gillianhefer.blogspot.com/2009/10/off-to-wilderness-this-weekend.html">Wilderness Weekend &#8211; What Happens in the Tent Stays in the Tent</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://becauseican.co.za/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: B</title>
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		<dc:creator>B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 10:45:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*Sigh*

It seems there is some misunderstanding...

Its not the FRIENDLINESS I have a prob with.. Its the crazy way I am held ransom to make small talk with the guy.. He will hold the Tomatoes in the air and be quite rude about greeting, in fact he shouts and wont give me my stuff till he gets a response.. and I dont like to make friendly with strangers.. makes me uncomfortable and edgy.. 

I am however easy to smile randomly.. and am not rude, mostly.. but when I am rushing around or don&#039;t see you because I am actually trying to remember what else I need .. don&#039;t make a scene with me and don&#039;t force smalltalk on me.. It is just not cool.. It will result in undesirable results for you and me..

I hope this clears up the misconception that I am a mean person.. because the truth is that people who force smalltalk are the true rude people..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*Sigh*</p>
<p>It seems there is some misunderstanding&#8230;</p>
<p>Its not the FRIENDLINESS I have a prob with.. Its the crazy way I am held ransom to make small talk with the guy.. He will hold the Tomatoes in the air and be quite rude about greeting, in fact he shouts and wont give me my stuff till he gets a response.. and I dont like to make friendly with strangers.. makes me uncomfortable and edgy.. </p>
<p>I am however easy to smile randomly.. and am not rude, mostly.. but when I am rushing around or don&#8217;t see you because I am actually trying to remember what else I need .. don&#8217;t make a scene with me and don&#8217;t force smalltalk on me.. It is just not cool.. It will result in undesirable results for you and me..</p>
<p>I hope this clears up the misconception that I am a mean person.. because the truth is that people who force smalltalk are the true rude people..</p>
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		<title>By: eastcoastjac</title>
		<link>http://becauseican.co.za/2009/10/26/appearances-deceive/comment-page-1/#comment-8421</link>
		<dc:creator>eastcoastjac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 10:19:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No way, B! I so don&#039;t agree.
But then, I&#039;m one of those rare birds who believes everyone needs a smile, and if they don&#039;t have one, I&#039;ll give them one of mine :-)
Hopefully I don&#039;t accidentally smile at you at the mall oneday - I might get slapped ;-)
Oh well, each to his own opinion, right.
J</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No way, B! I so don&#8217;t agree.<br />
But then, I&#8217;m one of those rare birds who believes everyone needs a smile, and if they don&#8217;t have one, I&#8217;ll give them one of mine <img src='http://becauseican.co.za/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Hopefully I don&#8217;t accidentally smile at you at the mall oneday &#8211; I might get slapped <img src='http://becauseican.co.za/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Oh well, each to his own opinion, right.<br />
J</p>
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		<title>By: B</title>
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		<dc:creator>B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 09:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tara -- OMFG!!! Yes, the Pharmacy chicka (younger than me nogal) called me sweety once.. I promptly told her I am NOT her sweety nor do I intend to be in any near future! Stupid cow almost swallowed her gum...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tara &#8212; OMFG!!! Yes, the Pharmacy chicka (younger than me nogal) called me sweety once.. I promptly told her I am NOT her sweety nor do I intend to be in any near future! Stupid cow almost swallowed her gum&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Tara</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 09:34:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eish wena. Why haven&#039;t you just reached out and klapped them yet?

My special chatty helper is the lady at the video shop. You stand anywhere near the counter and she&#039;ll start recommending shit to you whilst calling you darling.
.-= Tara&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.goblintalk.co.za/2009/10/apple-shows-their-whiny-little-bitch-side/&quot;&gt;Apple shows their whiny little bitch side&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eish wena. Why haven&#8217;t you just reached out and klapped them yet?</p>
<p>My special chatty helper is the lady at the video shop. You stand anywhere near the counter and she&#8217;ll start recommending shit to you whilst calling you darling.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Tara&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.goblintalk.co.za/2009/10/apple-shows-their-whiny-little-bitch-side/">Apple shows their whiny little bitch side</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://becauseican.co.za/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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