So what?

So what?

My cellphone rings.. and I look and its a private number. I debate whether to answer it as I don’t normally answer private numbers because only rude people knock on my door and refuse to announce who they are.. Its business hours however and answer it I did. I wish I hadn’t though. It starts out friendly enough with the caller on the other end introducing herself as someone or other from attorneys in bloemfontein? I couldn’t hear her too well at first because it wasn’t such a clear line.. She asked me where my mom is. I told her that unfortunately my mom passed away almost two years ago. She then went on to tell me that my mom is in arrears with her TV License. I tried to explain to her that I had contacted SABC at the time that she had...

Fidray Fnuny

Fidray Fnuny

“Banana Split” Like Unlike

Long Haul..

Long Haul..

Marriages/Long term relationships are serious hard work.. Anyone who is in a relationship/marriage for more than a year deserves a medal/award and that I suppose is why there are anniversaries..(the more years you put in the bigger the prize!) It doesn’t matter who you are, living with another person and sharing your cheese with them is tough. Lets have a closer look at the difficulties we experience in this cohabitation ritual.. In the beginning everything is still new and things are often forgiven and overlooked and you solve all your problems and arguments with mind-etching sex.. The sex re-enforces your bond and you forget the small stuff quickly. After about a year of this and you have succeeded in not breaking your vagina or his penis in your aid to...

Time is a slow healer..

Time is a slow healer..

So yesterday was the day to celebrate mothers.. And for those of us who are mothers we were blessed with cuddles and loves from our offspring with promises of “the best behaviour ever!” from them. And for those of us who have their moms still around it was a day of saying thank you for being the best mom and show just how much we appreciate everything that they do and have done.. But there are those of us out there that shed more than just one tear yesterday. There are those of us out there who were reminded of what is lost. And no matter how much time passes, the pain never ceases to surprise us in its intensity.We put on our brave faces so that the kiddies don’t see our burden of loss and pain. We find ourselves remembering all the Mothers...

Har Blerrie Har..

Har Blerrie Har..

Friday.. ..synonymous with funnies, jokes, pleasant banter being strewn backwards and forwards as everyone prepares for late nights, copious amounts of drinking and wild and free sex that continuous for minutes and minutes if you are lucky. So in the spirit of “shits and giggles” here is my contribution… Now have a wickedly eventful weekend and don’t forget to tell me all the juicy details ...