Just dont read this…
… it contains anger, swearing,CAPS and murderous thoughts that may/may not result in the possible need for an alibi.
Fuck
A word I am currently saying in succession and unable to find another word that can quite say how I feel right now.
FUCK
The asshole has done it again.. why do I expect any different from him?? He is soo fucken full of himself and doesnt give a shit.. yes thats right..
HE.QUITE.LITERALLY.COULD.NOT.GIVE.A.SHIT.
Last year he refused to take the boys for any of the school holidays, because he had to work and other stupid fucked up lame assed excuses he could pull out of his rotten dirty lying hairy ass. So that left me to deal with the boys during the holidays last year. And it wasnt easy. This year I told him right at the beginning that he needs to pull his weight.
Well, he has since then decided to show me that he will not do anything he doesnt want to do. And he has allocated his leave to riding Motorbikes and other stupid selfish bullshit that he wants to do.
At the last minute.. the boys phone him to find out what time he is coming and he says he isnt. He tells them that he cant take time off work.. He also tells them that he MIGHT consider taking them for the weekend if I phone and lick his ass.
Fuck him and the horse he beats and abuses..
I am soooo sick of his shit. I am keeping away from all cellphones, landlines and car keys.. Because I know.. He would enjoy nothing more than to hear how angry I am. This is his goal.He couldnt care how what he does effects the boys. Why should he? His attitude is that he pays his maintenance.. the rest is my problem. He told me recently that he has a life and I should leave him alone to live it.
I mean REALLY?!?!?
I have to work too.. When do I get time off? When do I get a break? Why does he not just do the right thing?
Tired – I am just soo tired of fighting for things to be fair. I am tired of his lies and his attitude.
And I know that something needs to change. And he is leaving me little option in this world but to get ruthless in return.
I am biding my time until I am more in control of my temper and then I will decide on a way forward..
Do you have any ideas or suggestions perhaps?
P.S. as an added bonus, anyone who wants His facebook details so you can see just what a REAL FUCKEN ASSHOLE looks like, just drop a comment indicating and I will email it to you.. 
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Send the kids to your parents or sister or close family while you take a break. Some schools / creches offer camps and outings.
Revenge: Don’t give him access to the kids… Chlorine on the lawn, sugar in his gas tank, brakefluid or pool acid on the car or lawn – or be creative and write something with it on the lawn
Clem – I dont have any parents and my family help out already so much.
But I like the way you think with regards to revenge though!!!
It is always a tough one, especially on the youngsters, there is not much you can do. Getting revenge has to be done a lot more subtly than above.
I hope you manage to sort it out – he doesnt sound like he is winning Father of the year anytime soon
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I’m sorry you’re having such a hard time with him…
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Oh man!!!! I get this! In that been there done that kinda way
It is the one thing that makes me want to spit fire and then drop kick him over the wall!
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Spewee – Yes, the boys hurt the most really…
Angel – yes, and to think I thought a divorce would mean the end of shit..stupid me.
Laura – EXACTLY!
Divorce I have found is merely the start of the shit! (however, that does not apply to my second divorce which has been very proper).
Well, I hear you. I have to work to and I have to have the kids during the holidays because I have a nanny and that seems to justify why nobody but me can look after the kids…. Only in December is the holidays split 50/50.
This is the first holiday where I’ve done things differently. My daughter is visiting at my Mom’s… a first…. and my middle child is visiting his dad… and no doubt stays with the nanny during the day… and my eldest son is home.
Is difficult babe.
Very unfair.
Try to calm down because I need you at the upcoming Canucklehead wars, part deux. Bring your sharp shiny thing. I don’t know when yet.
Why do you take all this shit from him? Let me know if you are ever serious about some REAL revenge.
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Wenchy – Its ridiculous the way they think that their lives are more important than ours!! I am personally sick of it..
Relax Max – you have my email. I am serious.
Yeah, my mate who’s in a similar position has given up expecting anything. It’s made her life a whole lot easier. Eish, B. I’m sorry.
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wow i am so sorry to hear your down girl. but i know what you mean i had the same problems. been 11 years now on my own at first he was in their life and next thing he doesnt have time for them any more..got a new life and all that bull shit. does it get easier? umm no not really.. you will still have to do all the dirty shit… but in all that mess you do seem to work out a way to have a lil bit of a lifeand trust me your kids will understand. they will understand anyway i hope you can work it out and get some time to yourself
Hi there. I don’t know your ex but this sounds pretty fucked up from what I read here. I would die if I couldn’t see my son for a week. Really. He should be excited to have them with him.
Anyway, good luck with this, because the people propably suffering the most here are the kids. How must they feel that their dad is avoiding them?
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Send me his facebook details. I will start an online campaign against him, starting with registering him with the Jehova Witnesses!
*big lix to make it better*
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Being an asshole is the one thing he is good at.. time I just accept it…
Thanks everyone
I’m really sorry to hear that. . . I wish I could say something to help out but I can’t even begin to imagine what you may be experiencing. All I can say is that you’ve stuck it out this far, so be strong, stay strong. One of the ‘mantras’, if you will, of my life is the idea that things always get better. Because they do, and they will! So don’t lose hope
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