I am consumed by work, kids and crazy people for long enough..
Today I change..
Today I edit my life until my stress levels decrease ..
Today I am all about life..
Today I choose me
So Please bear with me … I am currently Under Construction
The only submission I can ever be accused of is link submission and then only to a search engine.. and even then.. I prefer to give that task to someone else..
I say all that because I am annoyed.. I am annoyed at people and their misguided warped attitudes and I am annoyed that these people are allowed to broadcast these archaic and misguided opinions on TV.
In fact, I was reminded why I DO NOT have TV at home when I went to my brothers place on Sunday and his lodger had the TV blaring some or other gospel channel.
Now before everyone sucks in their breath and goes.. Ooooooh-Aaaaaaaaah!.. I have nothing against religion..So put down the weapons..okay?….Not at all.. promise.. M problem is with people who try and say bullshit and then pretend its gospel and if you dont do it you will go to hell.
Oh puhlease… bring it on bitches.. I dont care how much you screech it over the air… Men are not superior to women, k?
This stupid woman was saying how married women must not try and control men and must be submissive and allow men to take on their more natural role as the head of the household. How men are born into this role and that relationships just will not survive otherwise. She continued along this vein with some supporting excerpts from the bible about honouring and obeying. Seriously…
Submissive? Women must be Submissive? Women must Obey? Are we talking about people here or dogs? I am not saying we should all go burn our bra’s and grow our armpit hair.. oh no! I love my lingerie and as for the whole armpit hair thing.. not that nice, eh.
But to lose your will and your self respect just because you have a vagina? I think not. As nice and pleasing as my vagina might be.. if thats the crap I must deal with.. I will give it back..
I almost put my foot through the TV screen at the shit she waffled on about.. Telling people, gullible type people who may actually listen to her and allow their husbands to beat the crap out of them because it is his will?
What about that young wife sitting at home now thinking it is her fault her husband is sitting in the pub with his friends eyeing out the waitress because she did not submit to his unorthodox nookie last night??
Makes me soo angry.. And this is why so much crap goes on in this world.. because stupid, misguided people get put on TV to say stupid, misguided things..
What Next?
| 3.2 |
I missed a deadline at work (and here I blame Monday for its bullshit this week cos it appears to have pissed the other days off as well) and very busy doing fancy footwork and smiling pretty all the while hoping I don’t have to flash boob ..
But in this craziness i found time to read some of my fav blogs and saw that ol Gluggie posted his Love Words straight from the stats.. So I thought.. Brilliant idea!!
Here is the top ten over the last 30 days:-
( in order of popularity)
This is not a meme.. it must never be called one.. it is just arb stuff i wanted to share..
Have a happy hump day!
| 3.2 |
So you have heard of Blue Monday’s, right? .. I am sure you have even experienced the odd monday madness.. BUT today?? I dont actually know what to call today..
I normally love monday’s because its the day that births the rest of the week. And so I am even more terrified now. I feel I should grab my blankie throw it over my head and stay there till SexyG gets back on Friday from his Sani2C adventure!!
This is the breakdown of how my day has gone so far..
Woke up at 6am to a flooded kitchen and lounge.. have NO idea wtf is leaking.. but there is water coming from some stupid place. So it was SexyG and me armed with buckets and towels evacuating the water from the flat. ( this is still leaking from a mysterious spot that is currently not showing itself to me..)
Got treated really improper by a representative of a company that falsely advertised their goods after I pointed it out to them..
Waited for two hours ambling around in randomness waiting for SexyG’s bike to be returned to us from the bike shop after they phoned us and told us it was ready. We eventually left cos it was beyond a joke.. so it was wasted time and resulted in two trips..
Rushed back home feeling incredibly guilty because the kids were left stranded for ages waiting for me to fetch them all because we were sitting at the damn cycle shop with the bike jockey sticking his head out every 10 min saying that it would only be another 5 min.. I dont think he knows how long 5 min is.. someone should headbutt him.
Only to return home from the nightmarish day to discover that the GINORMOUS pile of clothes pending ironing wasnt tackled by the domestical because.. no wait for it!… the new iron that I only bought a few months ago… is broken! Aaargh…frik… damn.. delightful.
I then had to get in the office and catch up with urgent pending shite that REALLY needs me .. because, you know.. Its where the stupid money comes from that pays for the new iron and domestical and of course the food that will still need to be cooked for dinner..(I wont even talk about the scary emails I saw waiting for me from the SARS man..)
Then the phone rings.. the bike is ready… again.. this time for real they say. .*sigh.
So at 6pm we are back to the cycle shop.. dinner still not done..kids left at home.. probably killing each other.. the day feeling like it should shoot itself…cos its just so damn miserable.. and me… wishing I could start over.
I finally got back threw some food together only to have the youngest not eat because he has passed out from a migraine.. and having to listen to the eldest sitting in the diningroom sucking on chicken bones.
My day is done. I am sitting on the bed.. watching SexyG get his kit together as he prepares to leave for three days to ride with the boys over 286 km from Sani2C.
Hope yours was better..
| 3.5 (1 person) |
…and I have been busy working all day on a clients site effecting necessary changes and whatnot.
It isnt the best way to spend a saturday if you consider I am without kids this weekend. But we all know we dont always get what we want, and we are currently short staffed so there it is..
But I am done with all that for the day and looking for the best possible way to cool down. So I have put on my cozzie and going to go take a very much needed dip in the pool.
Tomorrow I am helping SexyG gets his gear ready for the Sani2C Adventure next week.. sigh.. I am going to miss him..
How has your weekend been so far??
| 2.5 |
The old rule of thumb used to be three dates.. And then it was considered acceptable to go all the way to funky town with the guy in question.
Does this rule still apply today? Do we still feel that the third date is the clincher and a condom must travel with? And if so what constitutes a date in todays modern way of SMS, E-mail and Online dating sites.
Would you consider three weeks of chatting on Mxit as “knowing” each other? Would you consider the exchange of photo’s via email as a date? What about sending each other your Google Earth Co-Ordinates?
I am not so sure that technology is doing us too many favours in the dating world and if anything it has allowed the jerks out there more of an avenue to prey on single and trusting women.
But lets say for instance Jenny meets Johnny via a dating site.. Johnny likes Jenny’s photo.. he appreciates her proficiency in completing her profile so thoroughly and she finds him entertaining if not just abit undone by the size of his ears. They decide to meet.. but they have been exchanging anecdotes and information for over two weeks already.. Is it acceptable for Johnny to arrive with wine in one hand and condoms in the other or would this be too forward?
In Johnny’s mind he knows Jenny more intimately than someone he has been seeing for over a period of six dates. He has shared soo much more and so has she. Why not expect some physical throw downs?
Jenny on the other hand.. is bewildered and shocked by the proposal of first date nookie but feels that she is perhaps being slightly prudish because after all.. this is the 21st Century and she has his Google Co-Ordinates saved back home on the PC.. so it must be OK? And lets face it.. Jenny has needs.. and with the size of Johnny’s ears it is promising to be an fulfilling event.
But I think not Johnny.. So tuck away your pecker and take the girl out on a few more dates.. Sex is not the end result of the date.. Sex is the next level on the ladder of intimacy.. So be patient.. because it will always be worth the wait 
I just dont believe that you can really truly know a person properly via online methods.. There is always something that they keep hidden from you and people are VERY different online than in real life. So the way he/she is represented online is not always what you end up with when you meet.
I for one would probably wait even longer than the third date rule just for those reasons.. The scope for misrepresentation is sooo much more higher.
As for cybersex… it is huge amounts of fun.. but if you ever hope to forge anything worthwhile with the other party.. this should not be done before at least meeting. And then I still believe it should be something not rushed into. Because CyberSex is just as intimate an act as real sex..
But what do you think? Do you agree with me? The third date rule? Or am I being a fuddy duddy and antiquated?
How long would you wait?
| 3.2 |
It wasn’t always this way, there was a time when I knew you cared,
Kinda funny how quickly another person can shift opinion or sway,
I DO so miss all our moments that we shared,
the jokes,the laughter, your sly wink from across the way.
And how it was altered or why, I do not know,
all I am aware of presently is the deceit, the emptiness and the sorrow.
Did I not do enough?
Did I not share with you?
Aargh, this is going to be very tough.
I miss you, I DO, I miss it all,
my Heart is broken, but back to you I will never crawl!
Here I am, no longer waiting for an “I’m Sorry” or a “Please Forgive”,
but walking away uncaring whether you die or live..
Without you I AM, Without you I CAN.
Go on, live your miserable existence,
but Remember, It was I that finally said..
…GOOD RIDDANCE!
.
P.S. this is not about my darling SexyG… kay…lol!
| 3.2 |
Such as:
Hello sweety -is a friendly, if not a bit Naive form of greeting (Who wants to be referred to as a fattening object?)
Hello Bitch – is normally regarded as a negative greeting by most.. but not all.
To say hello has no real monetary value attached. If you say it, it wont create any physical harm (unless it is followed by some or other profanity which is really just looking for shit isn’t it?) nor will it cause you to fall over and die spontaneously nor will your hair catch fire..
Cowardice, plain and simple. It is normally because the person in question has done something and is afraid that by saying hello you will ask them the very simplest of questions like “Who the fuck do you think you are?” followed by the obvious “Why don’t you and your simple mind just fuck right off..”
But in my experience as much as I would love a person would like to utter those words to the offending object in front of me them. It wont happen. The mere act of greeting is disarming in its appearance and the only rebuttal will be in the form of “Hi there, how are you?”
So to the person running the extra kilometer ducking behind the bushes while your husband has the politeness to greet and be polite.. Get over yourself .. No one cares enough about you and your stupidity to actually give you the tongue lashing you so obviously deserve..
| 3.2 |
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