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There is just no arguing with some people regarding somethings sometimes…

Some people will do whatever it takes to get what they want. Even at the expense of themselves.

Take Hairy Knuckle for instance, Here is a woman 29 years old who wanted another baby before she turned 30. Now this on its own is not a bad thing.. but take into consideration she is unmarried, no boyfriend, has no stable job (she does some real estate work now apparently though) already has two lovely girls and lives with her mom. Two weeks ago she attained her goal and gave birth to a little boy. The father is no where to be found or heard of.. And this is fine as far as she is concerned.. She just wanted the baby!

She has also declared her intentions on finding a husband now. I fear for the men out there as she goes singlemindedly on her path to attain this goal. I think she has gone about this all backward.. First comes marriage, then a baby in a carriage! I am not old fashioned but unless I’m lesbian I wouldn’t want to plan a family alone.. What do you say when they ask who their daddy is? At least her girls know who their daddy is as he has played a huge role in their lives even though he doesn’t have a relationship with their mother. But what about the little boy? What was she thinking? Perhaps she wasn’t..

But there are lots of people out there who dont care about the consequences as they travel through life on misguided paths doing what they please with no thought as to the effect it has on people around them.

I want alot out of life, but I do not want anything at the expense of others and will rather go without than ever hurting anyone. The truth however is that sometimes people do get hurt I suppose..

My goals in life are simple:-

  • To be as great a mom as mine was
  • To be a huge success in business (monetarily and professionally)
  • To travel overseas
  • And to love and be loved…

So what will you do to get what you want?

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5 Comments

  1. Sharon
    Apr 28, 2008

    I want love but, I have learn to wait on it. I want my own business which I am working on and have cut my employment outside down to two days to get.
    All others things will fall into place.

  2. angel
    May 2, 2008

    i have yet to understand the logic behind deciding to have a child alone. deliberately that is.
    i mean, i fell pregnant at 16 and damien’s father having no part in our lives was a mutual decision- so i have had to explain to damien all his life where he came from and as he got older he’s been given more and more details. but its never been easy!

  3. B
    May 6, 2008

    Sharon – I believe if you live a good life and not make fun of too many people .. Things will always fall into place! :-)

    Angel – LMAO !! By your statement I am thinking you thought having kids was easy…HAHAHHAH..
    Ok, now that you know better I can only say this.. It is easier to raise a child on your own than raising it with an idiot… Seriously!

  4. Wenchy
    Sep 1, 2008

    mmmmmm I want to love and be loved… fabulous that…

  5. B
    Sep 2, 2008

    Wenchy – yes.. it is absolutely Fabulous!

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